I Got De-bridesmaided
Before I made the decision to move to England, I was asked to be in my best friend’s wedding as a bridesmaid. This friend and I have been together through thick and thin. From problems with our parents, to religion, to boyfriends, to working together, we’ve always had each others’ backs.
I have felt somewhat guilty over the last few months in basically abandoning her before her wedding since I won’t be around for bridal showers and other bridesmaid duties. This was stressing her out also as she’s having a big traditional wedding and really wanted me to be a part of everything with her.
We had a big talk about my involvement with the wedding and she decided that since being a bridesmaid is about more than just wearing a pretty dress, I should be involved with the wedding in a different way.
I must admit it was a little bittersweet at first, but then I came to a realization. I may not be a part of this one day for her, but I’ve been there for her many days before it and I’m going to be there for all the rest. Our friendship roots deeper than the pretty dresses and fancy up-dos. I hope she knows that even though I won’t be standing beside her on her wedding day, I’ll stand beside her no matter what.
While I can see where your friend is coming from, I have a friend that lives thousands of miles away from me that is going to be my maid of honor. Although she’s not able to participate in much, she will at least be there for the ceremony.
But then again, you’re right. You’ve been there for her for everything else and will be standing beside her for the rest of time.
Amy,
You’re still gonna be at the wedding though, right?
A
I think you need to start posting again.
Or did they ban blogs in the UK?
Yes, blogs have been banned in the UK for some time now. It’s part of Gordon Brown’s crackdown on people who are saying mean things about him (ie everybody)